Ok, it seems the only option left to me is to use the ctrl-space debug commands to put the bugged romance back on track, (I am determined, it is just too damned frustrating). Can someone tell me the exact ctrl-space commands to make Dermin appear the third time, and or advance the romance since it is stuck? The readme for the balderdash patch that says how to do this is confusing...I must be doing it wrong because nothing is happening. Thanks.
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