Thanks for the reply Jabidas. I just exited the Underdark, and the ladies have started to bicker even more about me! Its pretty amusing, it really adds to the feel of the game.
Jeannada, why would you have to fight Anomen? If you tell him your not interested he attacks? Lol. Just take all his good stuff and let him fight you hand to hand then

That'll learn em.. I'm guessing a romance with Minsc is not possible? hehe