woohooo I did it! I ran a multiplayer game with our old team (primaryly casters) and after about 1hr of reloads with turn based on I was able to kill torgal and his 2 giant trolls. that was nastly. Is everyone fighting in real time? Its so much more fun. But turn base helps for really hard fights.
ok, before triggering the dialog I casted 1 greese to slow them down while in my web and entangle. Next came 2 holy smites for some damage without triggering their movement and a confusion spell. Then i moved a bit forward to trigger the dialog which allowed me to target them. (boy they look funny trying to run while stuck). So after 7 lighting bolts, 3 fireballs, 3 magic missles, 1 insect swarms, 2 holy blights, 2 summon insects, 5 animate dead, 2 nymphs, 2 pathers and 1 bear, 3 melfs acid and 8 chormatic orbs they were dead and only 2 of my chars were half hurt. Which was a result of a bear and panther turning on me, plus torgal and one giant troll got pretty close to us.
7/8 level chars
jaheira fighter/druid
-anomen fighter/cleric
+druid friend
viconia cleric
cleric/mage me
+jan theif illusionist
I plan on definatly removing anomen for probably korgan.
Im keeping Jan, exellent theif skills and he is a pretty decent mage.. bad ac and hp tho.

pretty scary.
my friends druid will remain.. she is i think L11 and has some nice spells, summon and polymorphing to some other creatures is nice for backup tanks.
Jaheira can dual roll, has good heals, summon and has better hp and alignment than Viconia. so ill keep her
Ill replace Viconia with a good fighter. hmmm
And then there is me.. cleric mage.. I should change this to pure mage. Invoker looks to be the best choice.
Hopefully this will fix my inbalance, and improve our reputation.
Any thoughts? thanks