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This might not be what you want to hear, but looks like you only have 2 routes to take:
1) reload
2) kill the silver dragon and leave Underdark yourself, she will have a scroll that will open the gate in the Kuo-Tua dungeon......although I am not sure about restoration of the drow disguise......
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