RELIC, Hey man, sorry to hear about your divorce, I guess you've come to terms with it by now. Its tough, especially when theres kids in the picture. I may not know much about...well...anything! And I may still be half in the "denial stage" and half in the "taking more and more second glances at my son's 19 year old baby sitter" stage, but I'll tell you this much, theres alot of women in the same boat as us. Somedays I feel like damaged goods on the dating scene, divorced, a kid, but I've met some nice women that are in the same situation. AND I've met some women that like kids and can dig the fact that the toughest years or raising the child are over (the vomit and diaper years).
Now of coarse nothings worked out for me so far but maybe it's because of that half in denial thing.....or maybe I'm holding out for the baby sitter....It doesn't matter, the point is, I agree, I love my little guy and he'll always come first, but I don't think we have to embrace a "solo" life style, I guess if somethings meant to come along it will. Just make sure you don't have your eyes closed when it does.
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