Hi PAC-MAN,
I have no doubt that I am probably one of the least intelligent members of the board and that my brain would explode from inadequacy if I were to try and learn the things that todays young people have to teach.
You're not alone, I divorced 5 or 6 years ago, stopped dating about 2 years ago and have become fairly comfortable with celibacy, and I do save a heck of a lot of money now
The thing that cinched the non dating and celibacy issue for me was my children. Every woman I dated after I was divorced was intimidated by the fact that I had children, and they were always trying to put me in the "Them or me", category. They didn't seem to understand that there was no choice to be made.
"I understand that you feel that way, and I am sorry, but my children will always come first. Take care". To put it succinctly. So I decided to stop putting myself through the heartache, and I have no regrets about that
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