Thanks everyone!
A couple of more questions, again though...
On duel-welding, will a fighter be penalized for wearing heavy armor? I understand for rangers it does, but other than loosing some dex bonus, it should be okay? I kinda want to make my dwarf beserker, wearing studded or better, weilding a big hammer and light axe. I've played this type in BGII and DAoC games, and I'm kinda of attached to my beer drinking, butt kickin dwarf
I have found that the taunt system isn't really a taunt system like in Everquest or DAoC, in that it helps lower the defense of the said target, but doesn't make them attack you. I've been trying to use the landscape to keep them from attacking my henchmen/women, which can work.
I've also been using the posses the familiar ability to keep my pixie from charging into battle.
Thanks again!