Happenend the same for me, you've possibly got a firewall somewhere.
I dont exactly know how the firewall ports work but usually you gotta add a port at the end of the server's IP-number like 432.545.645.42:5121 <-- its the :5121 thats the port.
There are several ports to choose, check the readme manual for which ones you could possibly use.
Good luck.
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