Welcome to the board, Mystwolf!!!
Well - I'm not sure what you are doing wrong since there aren't so many toad tunnels in which to get lost so .....
take a look here
http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/wiza...st-index.shtml
also note that there are maps you can download which may solve your problem.
Now, as I recall - after saying Ekbu and going down that ladder - you should head off in tunnels to the south and then head off towards the west. Wish I could be more helpful than that but I'm sure Xignal's maps will solve your problem.
If not - keep watch here - someone will be more helpful than I have been this time!
Wyv