[Melusine]

I'm replaying BG2, but it's been several years and my memory's a bit rusty.

In my game, I've just received the messages from Valen (saying her mistress is waiting for me in the Graveyard) and Brus (saying Gaelan wants to see me and sweeten the deal). I have not yet started doing Renal Bloodscalp's quest of exposing MaeVar's treachery. Now my memory's really hazy on this, but I know that if you wait for too long before going to the Graveyard, Bodhi will not be there and you have to take the Shadow Thieves' side. I want to side with Bodhi though. So how long can I wait before she will become unavailable (no guesses please, I don't want to have to reload an earlier save) OR could it be that I can accept Bodhi's offer and still finish the MaeVar quest thing first? I can't remember, but I thought that once you accept Bodhi's offer for taking you to Spellhold, the Shadow Thieves will become hostile.

Any help would be much appreciated!