[Lord]

Here are the same instructions I just gave someone in the ToB Forum (his problem was also from the flirt pack):

ok, read through this whole post before you do anything.

Back up these files:

Saved Games
Characters
baldur.ini
chittin
if you've created any items/spells, then go into your override folder, find them, and back them up.

Then uininstall all of your mods.
Then uninstall SoA and ToB.
Then reinstall SoA, then reinstall ToB.
Copy over the files that you backed up, and if you backed up anything from your override folder, put those back in the override folder. That includes an XP cap remover (cuz some go in there)

Then back up your dialogue.txt file. Then install the mods you want (make sure you do them in the correct order. The order can be found in a sticky in the SoA forum about all the mods for BG2).

If that doesn't work, then I guess you should either get rid of the flirt pack or just deal with this dialogue thing (which you can't really do)