[Bungleau]

Good morning to you, DS!

I'm glad to hear that you're getting someone to talk to. Finding one's own way in the world is a big challenge... some people never get it. And by that, I mean coming to grips with and understanding who and what you are, and what you want for your life. A councillor is a great person to talk with... they're someone who *doesn't* have any ulterior motives on your life. And that may sound a little strange, but it's often hard for those who love or like you to be as objective as they need to be.

As far as feeling trapped, it happens. I believe it often stems from FEAR... False Evidence Appearing Real. Our fears about what could or might happen are often far greater than what will actually happen; as humans, we're great at figuring out the worst of all possible situations. By taking a good look at them, we can often sift through and find the most real options. And "sit still and do nothing" is an option...

Stay strong, DS. Ultimately, *YOU* are who and what is important. Everyone else can fit into that reality in whatever way works for them... as long as it works for you. Doesn't mean you don't care about them, their feelings, and their well-being. Just means that you care about yours... more. Until someday, caring about yours also means caring about someone else's, just as much.

I bid you peace, comfort, and satisfaction.