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Originally Posted by Target
Another odd question, I really want my other half to start fancying me (finding me more appealing) again, what is it that attracts you to someone, what makes you fancy/want someone?
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Kynaeus is right on this one, we can't tell you what makes you attractive to her, or vice-versa. But either she can tell you, or you can tell yourself; you do have that knowledge, it may just have slipped away a little.
You're together, therefore she was attracted to you in the first place. She wants to give both of you time to fix it - to me that sounds like she still is attracted to you. If she wasn't the pair of you wouldn't have this opportunity. Trust me, I've been there, I guess most of us have at some point.
And look in yourself, have you changed to fit what you think she expects and become a different person from the one she fell for? Be yourself, be happy with yourself, be happy with her.
On a final note I do find your comment that your friends are all her friends quite saddening. These people should be your friends as well, it seems somehow wrong that you think of them as 'hers'.
All I can say is that relationships don't take work, but they do take effort, not the same thing at all. Good luck.