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sageridder · 11-23-2006, 02:42 AM

1 flowers to the furnal home with simple note of condoleance.
2 again brief but just sorry for your loss he was a good person made a differance in the childerens lives.
3 10 mins after what is really uncomfortable just make sure the kids have had a chance to say something if they are comfortable doing so.

It sounds more or less this is really a loss for you'r kids they would be the benchmark for this.You don't want to stay longer than the kids are comfortable but stay long enough they have a chance to work up the nerve to say goodby if they want.I think to do it right they are in charge for this ride.If you force them in any direction you will be the bad guy,sucks to be you in this but that's the sacrifice end of the deal of being a good dad in this case.Stay as long as they want and talk to them after but it might take hours days or weeks being a good dad is a hard job.Good luck.

[ 11-23-2006, 02:51 AM: Message edited by: sageridder ]

11-23-2006, 02:42 AM	#4
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