Same here, during school we had a lot of bad things happen. We had a year 12 student drown in the local lake, a kid in our year drowned in a dam at a golf course while drunk and running from guards, we had a female roll a car and become a parapledgic, and this year one of the girls that I went to school with (I wasn't good friends with her, but I knew her) smashed her car into a pole and the reason is unknown.
Seems these things happen to almost everyone, it's not fun/easy but it happens
