[DragonSlayer25]

OK, so I was an abusee when I was young, and now I find that if I talk to someone and I find myself attracted (not necessarily sexually) to them, they usually have had some sort of abuse as a child, too. 3 out of 5 of my closest freinds were abused, and I would say that I get the "vibe" from 9 out of ten girls that I find sexually attractive. All of my past girlfriends have been abused, also. I was wondering if this was common, for one person who was abused to be able to know if some other person was abused just by talking to them. This doesn't work like if we talked over the phone or were chatting online, unless it's a video chat sometimes, but in person I would say that I I'm like 90% accurate for guys, and 99.999% accurate for girls. The girls are easier because if I am really attracted to them for no apparent reason(i.e. I don't know them at all)that usually means that they were abused. Have there been any studies on this, or articles in mags, or websites or anything?