I just experienced this at work with our merger. A female manager is moving here from Milwaukee. We dresses like a high-power exec., is very, very, serious about her work and expects others to be the same, is a bit stuffy to talk to.....everyone of us was a bit unnerved by her as we expected to have her constantly watching over our shoulder and making us work 12 hr days......well a few of us went to Milwaukee for merger crap and we all met for dinner after work one day. To our surprise, this supposedly 'uptight' get-ahead, career woman came walking into the resteraunt in a Harley-Davidson tank top, blue jeans, leather riding boots, and her hair, which she always has in a bun at work, was down, and it comes almost to her waist! We have now found that she is very serious at work, but she is also very serious at leisure
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