[Wah]

Hi people! It's me - Wah. I got three questions here - all scenarios and it's a case of what YOU would do if you were that person, in a friendship dilemma.

Be honest.
Be truthful.

DON'T read other people's posts and go along with THEM.

Happy Thinkin'

(written from a feminine point of view - but 'she' and 'her' also means 'he' and 'him', also substitute 'boyfriend' for 'girlfriend if you're male - where appropriate)

(PS: Also substitute "best friend" for MATE. Urrrgh! I hate the idea of "best friends" - best 'mate' will do for me)

1) You knew that you best friend was getting cheated on, but recently she had a major row with you, because you lied to her - and now you don't talk often - just the usual small talk.

Suddenly you catch her boyfriend cheating on her, but you are too afraid to tell her, since the chances of her believing you are slim - and it could wreck your friendship if he denies it.

What do you do?

Let fate take it's path - or risk a break?

2) In another scenario, your secret lover suddenly splits up with you, for no apparent reason - and starts dating your best friend! You know that he is a lying bastard and a cheat! But your friend is SO happy and she has never felt so GOOD before.

What do you do?

Tell her that he is a lying bastard and end their relationship before its too late? Or wait...........and regret the day you didn't tell her earlier?

Will she believe you? Will she think that you're just jealous? Will this end your friendship?

3) Your friend says that she's really in love and that the guy she found is going to be just perfect!! Sadly however......he is a drug addict and he is conning her money out to pay the dealer.

She finds out and argues this with him! They work out a mutual understanding and she gradually dismisses that negative history over a couple of years.

It is just a couple of weeks before their WEDDING NIGHT.

You catch him with the drugs again.

What do you do?

Are you willing to tell her?
Or do you think you should talk to him instead?
What if their marriage gets wrecked later on, she ends up requiring therapy to ease her pains?
Will you regret that moment that you should've told her earlier?

Yes Or No.................it's your call.

Aren't I a devil. Arch Lich Wah

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[This message has been edited by Wah (edited 06-14-2001).]