That would indeed be a difficult position. However, I know my best friend extremely well (we've been friends since we were nine) and I'm sure she would want to know. In this day and age too, I think my friend would *need* to know. Who knows what lovely diseases the guy may bring home?
I realize that telling someone something like this could actually end the friendship. And while I would be devastated by the loss of our friendship, I would do it anyway because I have to do what's best for her and not me.
How could I not tell her? Imagine finding out YOUR best friend knew your spouse was cheating and never told you!
It would certainly have to be done calmly and cautiously. I would have to make sure I KNEW there was cheating involved - I would never wish to accuse unfairly.
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