I see that my post proved more ambiguous than i hoped...
@Nerull, what I wanted to suggest was the following
(assuming that you want to play male as you said):
1) There are two Nalia romances, one finished and one in developement, and since it has been said that the first one portraits an out of character Nalia, I would suggest to wait for jcompton's one to be finished, like me and a lot of other people are doing.
2) If you wanted to romance Imoen, I assume you are willing to put aside all of the problems and prejudices related to the very concept of romancing a sibling/half-sister/childhood friend/whatever, so I would suggest to try the romance.
But be warned: the author decided to put so many options for the player in there,that almost everybody has managed to find something annoying amongst them. If you choose all of the correct options, you get a nice romance, but you get the chance to be cruel to her as well, or to act totally stupid for no apparent reason, or to try to romance her and fail getting her mad at you instead!
Again... you've been warned.
3) I found no major problems or drawbacks in Tashia romance instead... Ok, someone find her annoying, but hey, there's a lot of people that find annoyng any single romanceable npc in the game!
Anyway, my current favourite is Viccy, obviously with the wonderful aforementioned flirt pack from Forgotten Wars [img]smile.gif[/img]
Ahh... lilacs and blood...