You have to teach her that there is more to her beauty than her wings, that she has already been a strong woman to endure all the pain and suffering that she had. Bedding your romance ASAP is usually not a good idea.
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When Aerie gains back her confidence in herself though... watch out folks! She becomes wilder than Viconia.

Hehehehe.
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