Why can't men and women write stuff down using a pre-selected set of phrases with clearly defined and mutually understood meanings [img]smile.gif[/img] WOuld realtionships be easy that way?
Seriously though, i would firstly advise you decide waht you want to do with your current relationship, as this clearly affects what you are going to do in your next
Secondly, if you decide to persue it, take your time a learn the lie of the land. Better a sow and steady start than a horrible wheel spin of over-eagerness on the wet tarmac of life [img]smile.gif[/img] . And ii'm not even a car-mad kind of guy