[spydar]

I must say violet that I am very offended that you say he was selfish. my brother attempted suicide, he felt that there was no way out, he was trapped with no one to talk to, and felt that in a family of 9 he had no one who understood and cared. depression is an actual mental illness that turns people down very dark roads. don't call it selfish, words like that just make people who are thinking of suicide feel even worse about themselves. try a little understanding and compassion.