Well it is kind of tricky. Basically your two arguments are:
1. You get out of her life and ignore all her insults. She passes away and there is possible chance you will feel guilty, but you would hope to get over it and not have it nagging at you.
2. You keep trying to put things right, you explain that what she is doing is wrong and make her understand that it is hurting you and is unacceptable, this is a kind of ultimatum. If she refuses to stop, you refuse to be with her. Simple. She should be the one feeling regret since she has done the wrong thing.
Personally, even though she has done this to you, I would try and forgive and forget and enjoy her last months/weeks with her. That way you will always know in your mind that you gave her all the love you could, and that you were friends when she died.
Afterall, 2 wrongs don't make a right [img]smile.gif[/img]
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