[LadyLuthien]

I have a few games going, mainly because I want to try out most of the romances. Anyhow, I've seen my husband play through the game with the Aerie romance, so I wasn't trying to pursue that one. So, in the game in which I'm trying to pursue Jaheira, I happen to also have Aerie in my party. And she's already agreed to become Minsc's witch.

So I have both romances coming at me. I'm playing a Paladin, so naturally I'm being nice to Aerie even though I want him to pursue Jaheira. I am wondering where I can find the balance here, to turn Aerie off without being ridiculously out of character, or upsetting her so she leaves the party. So far I've managed to do nothing but encourage her, because I just can't imagine a Paladin being cruel to her.