I talked to my oldest step daughter for about 4 hours. she understands my feelings about everything that is happening, and wants to get to know me and my kids

she did have a little freak out moment when she found out I am bearly 10 years older than her [img]graemlins/hehe.gif[/img] I made her laugh a few times by telling her some things about her father, and she asked how me and her daddy met, that was kind of a hard thing to explain without going into alot of details about why her dad was in the hospital. she also told me that her and her sister were told that I was a druggie and a drunk and that is what is wrong with Caleb

I am trying really hard not to hate her mother for saying something like that without even knowing me. I have never drank when I was pregnant, nor did I do drugs, and to me spreading lies to your kids about their step mother that you do not even know is just plain wrong.