I could write a lengthy reply of my own but Aerich has put it so unbelievably well that I can simply say: I agree with everything he said.
Stop making a big issue of this, already, why don't we? In the beginning the inquiries came across as merely interested and curious, but now they're leaning towards deliberate misunderstanding or misinterpretation with a hint of condemnation (not saying people condemn the homosexuality, mind, just the fact that Dave *dares* to mention it at an early stage). There is nothing strange or in-your-face or illogical about stating your sexual preferences in a topic that is all about getting people to know each other better. Dave has had actual experience of people's reactions towards his preference, so I think he knows best whether to be upfront about it or not to mention it at the start.
Hmm, this turned out lengthier than strictly necessary... I'll shut up now.
