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Originally posted by Melusine:
Actually that's not how it works for me (the fascination part). Most of my friends are male AND heterosexual. The question whether I can "have" any guy is not a terribly important one to me (unless I do want him, of course)
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Well, it wasnt supposed to insinuate that these girls would want to "have" me, a lot just find me better to talk to because they feel comfortable knowing that I wont be hitting on them, or trying to get into their pants. Therefore they ease up, come over and talk to me. Another thing ive found is that guys who hang out with gays are looked upon in high regard (shows more mature etc? i dunno). This is just from personal experience though, and is totally open for debate.
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it's not like gays are a challenge or something. I find it quite ridiculous to think like that. Many men are that way when it comes to lesbians though - they either think they'll convert the girl because of their supreme attractiveness (as IF) or hope to join in with her and her girlfriend. Sure, dream on.
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LOL believe it or not, the night I came out (just happened to be new years of 2002: picture me tanked off my tits at the 10 second countdown going "3...2...1... HAPPY NEW YEARS! IM GAY!" then running off for 4 hours while the rest of my school group discussed what just happened lol! But thats another story for another time...) one of my girl friends approached me and said "so your gay, are you?" then proceeded to start kissing me. So, funnily enough, it does work the same way for gays as lesbians being hit on by men.. just not as often. But, as you put it.. DREAM ON GIRLS!!! [img]tongue.gif[/img]
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Yeah, that's another puzzler. Why do so many men hate to find out one of the people they know is gay, for fear of being "checked out" by them?? *I* certainly don't try to hit on every guy I know (as you say, I'm waaaay out of their league, LOL), as much as some of them would like that, so why do they always assume that gay men will go after everything with a third leg? [img]tongue.gif[/img]
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I dont know. Guys are just insecure. Maybe they should be more worried if gay guys DONT check them out? In reality, I have found gays to have very VERY picky taste. Just look how good the guys off of Queer Eye come out after their makeover [img]tongue.gif[/img] It pees me off when I get hostility from a guy who gets too big for his boots, and I give him hostility in return. So hetero males of this forum, I put this to you... do NOT worry about gays hitting on you while talking to them, start worrying when they have hands down your pants. Youll find a lot of gay guys are very forward when it comes to this, and youll KNOW when they are hitting on you.