My wife and I agree, 3 is plnety for us!! Two girls and a boy. It is easier for us to the vasectomy then the woman to get the ole tubes tied, less painful as well
It is just our first time to be under the doctor and the nurses scrutiny. Never been one ot show off so I reckon that will be my 15 seconds, LOL
Good luck to you Ruby, I hope either way things work out for you and the family.