I am sorry to hear you are going through it, we had a similar thing happen to our beloved dog
we knew when it was time, she feel into a coma, and when we arrived at the vet, she looked at us one last time as if to say good bye
but we knew it was for the best, she had suffered to much because we could not accept that she was dying, but her illness was not cancer, my grandmother had a dog that got tumors alot, and she lived to be a ripe old age of 14 I think...if she suffers, do not hesitate to do what you think is best. but if she still shows signs of life, take her to a different vet and get a second oppinion if you wish, chances are there is a vet who can help her, best of luck on what ever you decide is best for you and your kitty [img]smile.gif[/img]