[Stormymystic]

I did not read all of it, but know that I disagree with this, let me explain why before you starting thinking bad of me. I do not hit my kids often, and only when they do something really bad do I do it, and do not hit hard, just enough to show them I mean it. take this for example. Skyler is being potty trained, and she just took a bath. she came up front, and while waiting on me to get her clothes, she decided she needed to pee, so she set there and did it instead of going to the potty. she has done this before, and each time she brags that she did it, and when asked why she said because she could do it, when everything else you try does not work, you are still the parent, and have to decide what is better for your belives. I do not belive in always using force with them, but there are times that I feel it is called for, now you can say what ever you wish, but I stand by my thoughts [img]smile.gif[/img]