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Today started off good enough for a Monday, my one thought that made it possible was that I was going to be on Vacation next week. Over a month ago I asked my wife to do one of two things to help out in this endeavor that I was going to do during my vacation. I asked her to see if she had vacation time so she could A) come with me B) Watch the children so her parents wouldnt have to. Needless to say after several reminders and time flying by she just checked and neither possibility is going to work. My father would have been 65 on May 10th, the day I had planned to spread his ashes where he had requested, the place is a bit off the beaten path and not a place to take toddler's due to various natural dangers. Mountains and babies do not agree very well, hehe so now I am in a bit of pickle. Depressed to say the least. Mmy father passed on little over a year ago and due to various family issues I wasnt able to fullfill his request until now and now doesnt look like it is going to happen for me, I am at my wits end with all this family business and just wish I could tend to mine and mine alone. So remember when you pass on, and you are leaving behind loved one's and an estate and a business and rental properties and all sorts of other goodies, have a defined will with exact instructions and details so that the responsable child in the family isnt left tending the fires you left burning!!!! I miss my father but I am glad he is no longer suffering
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