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Originally posted by Firestormalpha:
Anyways she said that she didn't want to pursue because she was afraid we'd end up having pre-marital sex. I'm a virgin and she isn't, and she doesn't want to mess that up. I respect her decision. Right now we're cool with each other, but just friends.
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i hate to say this, it may be a downer.....but i didn't date virgin guys after i lost my virginity cause i was just not....into it. i dunno, some women love it cause they can "train" a guy, but it was just not for me, i guess i am simply not dominating. she may be the same way. i guess the only way you could reassure her is to tell her you have no intention of losing yours anytime soon (as long as that's the truth) and that as much as you like her and find her attractive you feel the mutual respect would hold up really well in a relationship.
sorry if this is tmi, but nathan thinks i would not have fallen for him without intimate relations, but i beleive that if he had been still holding out i would have respected him and come to love him for his strength. anyway....i hope he doesn't read that, i don;t think he likes it when i talk too much about that stuff....especially on a forum where ppl know him.
EDIT: the guy who wanted to give me his *V* was too obsessive, and i had no attraction to his over eagerness to give me that which he should have been offering his girlfriend. that is where i got my ?phobia? of dating one.
[ 11-24-2003, 09:52 AM: Message edited by: RevRuby ]