aww poor rev, alot of men do not think about how their words affect a woman, and it is worse when you are pregnant, your emotions are on edge, you are in constant discomfort due to all the movement the baby does, and are always tired, men can not comprehend that, lol. tell him next time he does it, you will take something he loves alot and spent hours working on, and you will redo it to the way you think it looks pleasing
it works, it is how I get my husband to understand that what he does irrates me, and hurts my feelings. sometimes, if they think they are helping, is when they are making it worse