[Stormymystic]

why does neighbors take advantadge of people? I loaned my phone to m neighbor, a few days ago, and she returned it yesterday! then she borrows it again, and now she is not home! it is a cell phone, and I am really upset about it, they have called my brother twice today, and she erases the call logs, not evn caring that I might have unsaved numbers in there, I can not lock the call logs on this phone, so i have no way of stopping her from doing this, should I start being mean and telling her no, she can not use it? or perhaps lie and say it si broken, when in a way it is, she broke the Antenna off of it during her last borrowing of the phone, what can I do that does not sound mean, or ruiin what little friendship there is?
p.s. another about her, she is also supposed to be our bay sitter, but just before time for her to take the kids, she dissapears, and then when she comes home, it is always oh I forgot.....than she tries to back out of it,she sent her 12 year old son, and his sister, and a 13 year old biy over here, and they wound up getting online, and messing with stuff, and hitting on a 36 year old woman, she does not control her kids, grrr, ok rant off for now [img]graemlins/rant.gif[/img]