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Originally posted by Aelia Jusa:
That's fair enough, for you. However the place that your relationship is at, and the feelings you have for your girlfriend will be different from Beau's. Only he knows what the right thing for him is to do, and the right thing for his girlfriend. I agree with Epona and Willow, that if Beau really felt like this girl was 'the one', he wouldn't have been having these doubts or negative feelings about his relationship. Far better that he ends it now and they can both move on, than dragging it out and continue being miserable just because he doesn't want to hurt her feelings.
And I think Willow meant that it was Beau's emotions and not anyone else's who has posted here, not Beau's in favour of his girlfriend's  . It's all very well for other people to post about their successful long distance relationships, but no one knows how Beau feels, and can't really judge him on the basis of their own relationships.
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I think when you say "weīre talking about
here", then I would have understood that you meant this thread in particular. Quite hard for a non-native to catch.
You cannot either be sure if he really felt she was the one, maybe she was because he regretted. He said he really liked her. Would this have happened if they would be neighbors...? I donīt think so. Whenever distance is a matter, itīs actually not an excuse.
And well, I donīt want to sound mean of course. [img]smile.gif[/img]