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Originally posted by pcgiant:
Re: Q5, I've totally messed up my relationship with my best friend because I've fallen in love with her...  ARGH... its so painful
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Sorry to hear that, pcgiant
But do take pride in your courage to express your feelings for her. Some people don't, and end up wondering if they should have. At least you tried [img]graemlins/thumbsup.gif[/img]
As for the rest, thank you for sharing your thoughts. I have had my own share of crushes (even on guys who were married or rumoured to have girlfriends) and recently wondered about the possibility of something going with a friend of many years (as far as I know,he's still unattached despite being wonderfully thoughtful and gentlemanly). But in all cases, I did nothing because I'm old-fashioned and face matters an awful lot to me
And I personally wouldn't go into anything serious to someone who was still married (even those awaiting the formalisation of divorce). Maybe I'm being a pessimist, but I can't wondering if he would do the same thing to me (ie, engage in a relationship while he's married) should we end up together. [img]graemlins/verysad.gif[/img]
About the first question... I don't mean literally fight, more of, are you a proactive person or laid-back like me? This is a modern world and one would expect someone who's studied abroad like me to be more open, but ever since returning home (Asia), I've kind of gone to the other extreme - being more repressed than ever :uhoh: