I admit that the questions are rather vague; I had quite a struggle coming up with short ones that fit the length constraint and ended up with those in the poll... I'll try to be more concise the next time
I guess I'm more conservative in that I would wait for the guy to approach me (rationale: if he were interested, he would make the move - the privilege of being a guy. and if he weren't, why make a fool of myself?). I know of many peers who would scoff at my old-fashioned ways of thinking, though. It has a lot to do with my upbringing as well as the books I read (the real Jane Austen heroines didn't just strut up to the men they liked and nudge them
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I've also heard the usual argument for having relationships with married men/women: that they're on the verge of divorce anyway and this is truly THE relationship that will last. Not that I agree with this argument, but some people really believe that they are not in the wrong.
As for risking a friendship for possible romance, I don't think I would do that especially for a friend I've known close to 10 years. I figure that if he could feel attracted to me, it should have happened over the last decade and not after that [img]tongue.gif[/img]
I do hope others could care to share their views on the subject [img]smile.gif[/img]