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Originally posted by johnny:
At first i felt like i had to build a wall around her to keep all the guys away, but you only make a fool of yourself when you do that. It's all up to Taryn in this case. What's her reaction to all these guys trying to get her attention ? Does she make it clear she has a boyfriend ?
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Yes, that's no problem...she's friendly, she's not snobby at all, and she always has time for anyone who talks to her - obviously it's flattering, but no, she won't let them sleaze on to her, which is good. A few years ago she struggled to let people down gently, without hurting their feelings - that's when I told her who cares about someone's feelings if he's sleazing on to you, if he's being nice and courteous, then by all means be courteous back, but if he's being a sleaze then you have no obligation to be nice.
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You probably feel like you wanna crack some skulls every time you go out and things like that happen. Well, i know how you feel, but don't give in to that feeling. You'll be fighting an endless battle, cause next time you go out, others will be lining up, and the whole thing starts all over again. You just don't have girls like that completely for yourself when you go out. Unless you lock her up inside your house, better get used to it. These are things you can't moderate.
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That's why I don't care so much now - you just end up looking like a jealous little sh!t, plus I have better things to do when I go out than be someone's watchdog, and in any case there's no law that says you can't talk to people. I talk to other girls all the time (though I generally don't try to crack on
). It's just funny that they all try and have a go, that's all.
[ 07-13-2003, 11:16 AM: Message edited by: Memnoch ]