I'm male as well, so I can't help you with your main question. However, I can suggest that in my experience female BG2 players tend to make up a greater percentage of the posters on boards dedicated to male romanceable NPCs. The Solaufein and Kelsey fora have strong female presences. [ And for the cynical among us I have met some of these people in real life, etc., and can vouch that they are not merely men with interesting names. ] Why don't you try at one of those places?
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