I played the game before and romanced Jaheira, but never got to finish the romance-- it "stalled" at a certain point. Now I am playing it again and have gone farther than before, but worry that I may have missed something.
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Jaheira left the Harpers a while back and we have discussed it a few time now (maybe 3 or 4). One of the most recent chats involved her asking if I had "changed" and if I enjoy fighting and killing. I think there was one more after that.
I am now about to confront Bohdi for the final time and from what I have heard/ read, I know Jaheira should be turned into a vampire. I just want to make sure I haven't missed anything. I have heard that Elminster is supposed to show up at some point and give Jaheira a Harper pin. Does this need to happen BEFORE the battle with Bohdi? If so, what do I do to trigger the event? I have had no indication of how to advance the Harper subplot. Jaheira keeps telling me she needs to think, but has never said how to resolve the Harper issue. I really don't want to mess up the romance again. Can anyone give me ideas?
I have fought and killed a couple of Harpers that came to bring me to justice. Are there more? Do I have to go somewhere to confront them?
Any help would be appreciated.
Thanks

Could you tell me the LT rating?
I may be able to help but I need your LT rating.

Forgive my ignorance, but what IS the LT rating? Where do I find it?

You need to "activate" the CLUAConsole.
To do so open your Baldur.ini directory and under Program Options write "Debug Mode=1" without the quotation marks.
Then under Game Options write "Cheats=1"
That should enable the console.
Load your game pause it and while paused press ctrl+space.
That should pop up the console
Now in the console window write
CLUAConsole:GetGlobal("LoveTalk","LOCALS") while you have the pointer on Jaheira's portrait.
That should give you your LT rating!
It's easier than it sounds!!!!! :D

Okay, well, I am going to sound dense here, but... Where is this Baldur.ini located? I went: my comp->program files->Black Isle-> BGII
->then what?

Can I look it up on SHadow Keeper?
I was hoping someone would know just by where I am in the game and what I have done.

Sorry I am not familiar with SK.
As to where it is located it right therewhere you said!
Looks like a notepad with a yellow sign(at least in my PC).

LOVETALKLOCALS set to 52
This is the message I got

Ok go to any outdoors area and Dermin-Jaheira's former mentor-should appear and attack you.I usually go to the perimeter of the DeArnisse Hold.If he doesn't appear rest.
Upon waking he should appear.
The romance ends on LT 70. That is when Elminster appears.
I think that to do the Vampirism quest you must have a romance active=2.

Thanks. I will try that. Like I said, I fought a woman Harper (for me it was in the graveyard) and Jaheira tried to explain that I'm not so bad and that we wouldn't fight her, but she attacked us and we had to kill her. I don't remember any other battles after that.
Do I have to meet her mentor BEFORE the encounter with Bodhi?
Will the ToB portion of the romance wait until I start Tob, or will it integrate itself into this game?