There are two quest here that you are confusing. The investigate quest, given in town, just means go to the toad village, talk to the priest about the troubles, then you can go back to town. The toadem quest is given to you by the priest when you tell him you are ukabu. He will give you acess to the toadem.

There is a man in the first village who gave me a quest.. It was something about toad wars and stuff.. he said i shall go and "investigate" the village.. what does he mean with investigate? just look around or.. slaughter the whole town.. i've already been named "ukabu" and talked to their priest.. what should i do now with the toad village? Sorry once again for the diffuse explanation.. I'm from sweden y'know..

If you've completed the quest for the toad priest and saved their totem, then that's it. You're done in the toad village and can continue with the game.

V.

in that case.. where is the totem?