First: Where do I find those people who burried that guy in the graveyard?

Second: Where do I get quests that involve trademeet and the druid grove.

Third: What is your ideal party to beat the game with (not the fastest party, but the best)?

First: Where do I find those people who burried that guy in the graveyard-

you find these people in the bridge distirct in the day at the house to the futhest south of the map. Theres a red bloke out side.Talk to him, followe him into the house

2) One way to get to Trademeet is to do the Umar Hills quest and Temple Quest, rescue Mazzy, and your map gets updated. When you enter Trademeet, a conversation with the guards at the gate (after the animal fight) will lead you to go speak with the mayor (check map for location of his house). The mayor will point you to Cernd and the Druid's grove. I know this is a backward way of getting there, but it'll work. P.S. Don't forget to stop by the Djinn tent on your way out of town.

"best party" and "ideal party" are entirely subjective. So very much depends upon your personal style of combat (prefer melee, ranged, or magical) and perferred party alignment.

My personal "best" party is requires a strong melee conponent. 2 full tanks, 2 mixed melee-ranged or melee-ranged-magic, 2 spell casters.

Example: (my current party)
TANK: me ... Alarra (Inquisitor)
TANK: Jahiera
MIXED: Valygar
MIXED: Mazzy Fentan
SPELLS: Imoen
SPELLS: Nalia

I realize that this is a bit of a different party. Using Jahiera as a pure tank is a change of pace. Also, she's using a +3 scimitar or speed that I've imported into the game. Don't bother flaming me about how others are better tanks (such as Minsc or Korgan). I know that. I only wanted to try something different for a change. And I'm not complaining. My party's still kicking any asses that get in its way.

Mazzy Fentan is an NPC that doesn't get much mention on this board, but I've found her to be quite a useful little halfling Truesword. Mazzy also has some Paladin-ish innate abilities that you wouldn't expect in a pure fighter.

5 points in shortbow and 3 points in short sword to start. And as a pure fighter, she tanks up easily. Her only glaring weakness is a 15 STR. I haven't given her a STR enhancing item yet since she's rarely in my front line and uses her short bow almost exclusively. Also, since she does have 3 points in short sword, she's perhaps the only real melee NPC that will get full use out of some of the useful short sword in BG2.

2.- Go to the Gate and you will find a man asking for help for trademeet
3.- Very subjective, I like:

Tank
Tank
ranged or mage
cleric or druid
thief
mage

My Current Party:

TANK
TANKISH CLERIC
CLERIC
MAGE
MAGE
............LICH!!