I was happily stringing along both Jaheria & Aerie (I'm a Half-Elf) keeping them both happy. For awhile Jaheria was giving Aerie a hard time etc. In Chapter 5 I had no choice but to sleep with the Drow bitch (I din't want to honest). If I refused she alerted the whole Drow City and I was F-----! Anyway Aerie got real pissed with me. Since then (I'm late in Chapter 6) nothing from either of them!? Are any chances of romance over???

If you have a decent intelligence you can get out of having to sleep with Phaere by telling her you're already taken by some other handmaiden. Maybe try drinking mind-boosting potions beforehand, you can buy them from a drow merchant if you don't have any. If it doesn't work, and you end up in Phaere's bed, Aerie's romance is over, but if you say the right thing to Jaheira, she won't care. Then again, perhaps you need a good intelligence for that, as well.

Oh, yeah. Viconia doesn't care at all if you sleep with Phaere. If you fancy standing around in the middle of Tethir for a few days (real time), you could probably get all the way through her romance.

Cheers Armisael,
I think I'll try it out with Viconia.
I actually tried to avoid sleeping with Phaere (my int was about 15), I tried pulling the "I'm already taken line". The only option I got was to basically say "I have problems ie I'm impotent" and I didn't wan't to do that! It figures that Aerie gets mad while the other two don't care.
Aerie's turned out to be a pretty good Mage/ Cleric combo, it'll be a shame to see her go!