I talked to Nalia at the beginning of the game, but rejected the quest (for later). But now has she disappeared, she is not in the copper coronet and the Arnise Hold is not marked on the map. Suggestions to do to find her?

*yawns*

Sorry I'm half asleep and more than a bit drunk but i can still type half-decently. Go to the city gates then go out, the DeArnice hold should appear on your map.