I got hasty and accepted Aeries early offer instead of holding back, and now she dumped me! Anywho, I wuz wondering wether at any point in the game that relationship will start again?

I haven't gotten far enough to have to make that choice, but from what I have read, if you take her up on the first offer then the relationship is over. If you have an older saved game from before you slept with her go back to it. Tell her that there is more to love than sex the first time. She will thank you for not taking advantage of her, then the next time everything will go smoothly afterwords. That's what I have read on other posts anyway.

Jeez, I wouldn't go that far. The romance dialogues end after that event regardless of whether Aerie drops you or not, so why bother? Better to have loved and lost. Now you can start hitting on Viconia, anyway.