So i killed elisa, went back to harespia, gave her the ruined wand and she says i am the chosen one and a door opens up...i went downstairs and got the treasure from the treasure chest, went back to valeia and roendalf says that i still don't have the orb of clarity...what did i do wrong? do i need to identify all my stuff to find it or did i miss something?

You should have gotten it directly from Harespia. Check your character's inventory for a pinkish amulet. If not, go back to Harespia and see if it dropped on the ground.

The character whose inventory it's in must be the first one to speak to Roendalf. The others will get credit after the fact, when you click on them after he recognizes the one with the Orb.

-Sazerac

I looked all around and didn't have the amulet...tried to talk to harespia again but she wouldn't say anything else...so I killed her and she still had the orb on her so I guess i am moving forward...thanks anyhow, hopefully no long term ramifications for killing the gypsies!