I suppose the great thing about this game is that you always feel that you're near the end but of course you're not. All I need to do is collect the slaves tears, the tome, Midae's necklace thing and the torture bonds. I've started the search but to tell you the truth but I can't be bothered spending hours in the search. Could some kind hearted Ironworker please give me directions!

You cannot escape from this quest. You need to do it.
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-'Tome of Ilmater' found in 3rd Mage tower floor
-'Toral Bonds of Suffering' found in 2nd War tower floor
-'Madae's Ilmater Medallion' found in 6 o'clock 3rd palm floor
-'Tears of Suffering' found in 8 o'clock 1st palm floor from Jerre Stoh.

I've got three of the four but I also have an Ilmater necklace which doesn't specificaly say "Madae's Ilmater Medallion" although I have checked where you told me to go Kakero. Where do you go with this stuff anyway? I know it's somewhere in the cleric tower. Is it that teleportation bit because I can get through there.

Go to the Cleric tower 1st floor. do the ritual infront at Ilmater statue