I have read around the net about BG2 romances and there is at least one site that *implies* that if you are playing BG2 with the ToB expansion installed, you will be given a choice to "resurrect" a romance. The choice is offered early in the transition to ToB. Sometime in, or during, when you meet Sarevok. The reason I ask is because I am hopelessly in lust for Viconia, but she has already said that "it won't work"! Apparently I will get another chance to show her that the way to the top,,,,, is with a Demi-God!!!
My ? is,, are you actually offered the chance to restart a romance? And if so, how tricky is the process? SPOIL ME !!!!

IIRC, Viconia rejects you and makes fun of you at first if the romance is going well. However, in ToB, she'll become adjusted to you.

Depends on where you are in the romance. You need to be near the end of the game and all you need to do is make sure she stays in the party. She'll come around in ToB.

But if she tells you it won't work and you're not at the end of the game? I doubt it'll work in ToB...