About halfway through chapter two, I realized that I had limited options for romance, as my pc is a female half-elf ranger. I met Anomen and decided not to use him as I thought he was an egotistical a**hole, but as I understood it, there weren't any other options for a female pc.
After snooping around on a few chat boards, I found out about the console commands and edited in Jaheira as a love interest. Anyone else do any "cheating" that doesn't really affect game balance?

Some folks have experienced bugs in their game due to the nature of the love editor, good luck with your alternative romance

BUGS?
Damn, I thought the only thing I had to worry about was crabs!

Sorry, couldn't help it. Seriously, though what sort of problems have you heard of? I may just re-edit things out if I'm going to seriously screw up my game...
Maybe I'll have a Ranger/Nun...

I think the most common problem with editing love code is to get the next dialogue to pop-up. The romance hack for male npcs often cause some characters to become very slow moving (which I don't think it applies to your case). Anyways, you are probably better off with Jaheria than Anomen.

Although, she may refer to you as a bloke.
If I was a woman, I'd rather have a romance with a familiar than bloody Anomen.